maybe you do never check your phone (however, that has not been the case when we hang out…) but do not lie to me about “not seeing my missed call/text message” instead of just telling me you want to hang out with your friend, or do work, or be alone, or sleep, etc
i will not be offended in the slightest if you do not want to hang out. you have every right to personal time.
but i will be absolutely livid if you think lying to me will protect my feelings. i do not need my feelings protected. i am not soft and fragile. and you thinking that i am is a huge insult.